So, there was a time I was RPing with the same partner and I started getting attached to him. I was always on his blog, we always talked to each other and I started feeling something more, like a crush or something, but my RP parter never revealed it’s gender, so I just assumed that he was a guy for how he writes and acts with me. But then one time he told me that he was a girl too, and I was completely in shock because I was crushing on another girl and I’m heterosexual. But… I think I like her anyway, she’s my senpai.
You keep using that word, but I don’t think it means what you think it means.
You do know senpai a term equivalent to ‘mentor’ or someone with seniority over you right? It has literally nothing to do with you having a crush on—Christ, you know what?
It’s too early for me to try and explain to you why just because it’s an internet meme that Tumblr has made to mean something else doesn’t make you sound any less dense when you use it in a serious context.
Not even addressing the “IT” usage when she didn’t know her partner’s gender… Ugh. ‘They’ exists as a non insulting gender neutral pronoun for a reason.